THE STRUGGLES OF A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

Everyone desire that sense of love(loving and being loved),Emotions are something that is of a necessity in life and we all yarn for that better half;that partner with whom we can explore this promising world and express our inner selves and with such goals we go to an unending search of the perfect relationship,be it as unmarried partners or in marriage we never stops till we have found what seems in the slightest of thoughts "A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP".Good relationships don't just happen with the click of the finger,they take Time,Patience,and two people who truly and genuinely wants to be together.living up and keeping a relationship going can be very difficult and at times the most confusing venture one can ever take on,most time you aren't even sure of what to do,how to show you still genuinely care about your partner.Most times you  are faced with that challenge of trying to show your deepest care and affection.Truth be told,it doesn't always require the Emotions,care,confessions of love(not saying that these aren't expedient in every relationships)but it requires a step forward,it does also require the extra mile and a whole lot of sacrifices one that if you are not ready for then you shouldn't  dream of wanting the sustenance of the relationship.

      Every worthwhile relationship is one that is worth fighting for,and like it has been stated already,its a difficult and sometimes frustrating task to undergo but it's one that ever pays off as the dream of a happy ending(happily ever after) can be obtainable.

There are essential universal truths that are paramount and accounts for the success of every good and lasting relationships and the application of those can yield tremendous results.But let it be stressed that these key truths require efforts and patience and a continual trial and practice as the days advances and as we strive to build that relationship of our choice it is never limited to these few tips.

 TRUST

     we may wonder why this ever comes first but why wonder,what could we ever achieve in anything be it a bossiness venture,or even the least relationship without TRUST.This  stands out as it it the basis upon which every thing successful is built upon,and relationship is nit left out.

Trust is crucial period No IFs or BUTs

If you are in a relationship for the long term,you simply cannot afford to have trust issues.There's is no rooms for doubts,you have to trust with a full heart and with unequal confidence that your partner loves you,no matter who it may be or the circumstances that surrounds the present ,you ever should have confidence that he has you at heart at all moments that is the first step to a better and lasting relationship.

  QUALITY TIME

Yes!!! here it comes again ,this is one like no other,quality time makes up every thing and it is at this point that memories that last for a life time are made.Quality time is essential. Whether you are in a long-distance relationship or just live a busy life with full-time jobs and outside activities, you may not be able to spend as much time as you’d like with your loved one.

Do something fun together, do something meaningful, have meaningful conversations, pay attention to each other, and express your love like crazy.

     COMMUNICATION

  Communication is always crucial,it is the only way we show attention the most.it is the backbone of every relationship because it is by this that we are able to express our within,our fears,worries,hard times,challenges and what have you.NO MATTER WHAT FORM IT TAKES COMMUNICATE;Through social media,Text messages,Laters,Fax, what ever form works best for the both of you.you will quickly realize that the way you communicate with each other is key to maintaining a long lasting relationship.

When you communicate with your loved one, remember that love is the key. Speak from the heart.

Have good intentions and be clear. Discuss problems in a peaceful and loving manner.

Practice effective active listening skills,paying close attention to every detail and as you do,show genuine interest in what so ever is been discussed ; do not interrupt the other person, listen and watch. Be mindful.

Remain calm. Be respectful. Be loving

   

       SMALL  ACTS OF KINDNESS

Small acts of kindness have always been a big part of every relationship. It is the little things that matters and in relationships,little at of kindness rekindles the fire from the ashes left,it speaks much than any amount of words we may choose to say to profess how much love you have for each other.

Small acts are vital. Whether it is a small gift, doing the dishes, or giving a hug, it shows your love and support.

Send flowers, send an ecard, or leave a small note on the table. Bake cookies or make breakfast in bed. Give hugs and kisses for no reason other than to show your love.

      EXPRESS YOUR LOVE

Expressing our love for each other is probably the most crucial thing in every relationship. It still is. Always make sure to tell each other how much you love each other, and do it with meaning.

Love is always the foundation. It’s nearly obvious, but sometimes so obvious that couples tend to forget about it, and saying “I love you” becomes monotonous. But love is the basis and the reason of your relationship.

So express your love through actions, words, and non-verbal communication. Don’t make “I love you” a routine, but instead always, and I do mean always, say it from the heart,it's worth it to know that a partner's love emanates from the heart.